YAY Michelle!! Congratulations on your BFP, I'm so stoked for you
Can't wait to keep up with your pregnnacy journal.
Wishing you a fantastic H&H pregnancy
OMG Mooshie I practically fell off my seat when I saw you posting this!!!
Woohoo it is fantastic news and I'm thrilled for you and your family. Wishing you all the best for a H&H pregnancy - humungous congratulations my dear!!!!!
oh thank you so much girls you don't know how much this means to me. i am posting here to say i won't be around for a few days, i have a lot of decisions to make. unfortunately my dh hasn't taken to the news well at all. it is absolutely confused the hell out of me, we were actively ttc since july 05 taking temps, opk's and bd all the right times etc etc. then when a few months back, we both well probably be me moreso decided that i had accepted things and that i would get on with enjoying what we have, i guess my dh thought that means that it would be impossible for me to every fall pregnant. he says he supports me either way, wtf does he mean. he says financially and emotionally it has come at the wrong time and if it had of happended 6 - 12 mths ago he would be happy, however if i decide to continue with this pregnancy and why the hell wouldn't i think anything different not to then that we will have to sell our house and financially we could not bring up another child.
i cannot believe the way he has been with me the past 24hrs i am guttered, there is alot more to it, my husband is an alcoholic, who of course believes he isn't and he apparently doesn't have a problem, but really most of our financial woes do come about from him spending approx $100 pw on alchol. things got pretty heated last night and he actually slapped me across the face 3 times. it is not pretty here at all.
i have been to see my gp and have been in touch with the royal womans pregnancy counselling service and am also waiting on a call back from the domestic violence people.
so either way i am going along with this alone, i have been through so much in the last 10yrs and i don't know why things like this are happening to me. my dh says our marriage is through (we have been married for 14 yrs), he said some pretty cruel and nasty things along with alot of childing things. i wish to god right now that i never met the bastard he has not only emotionally abused me over the years but it looks like now he thinks he can raise his hand.
ladies keep me in your thoughts please and send strong messages to this little bub (who i have a strong feeling is a little boy) i am getting help and i have alot of support around me, i will be taking a break for a few weeks from here and will come back soon.
thanks again your wishes have brightened up my day
Dammit Mooshie - after all this.
All my prayers and love are yours right now. Whenever you need support, we are here to boost your strength. You just hang in there hun, this bub is a definite blessing and maybe it was enough to get the moron out of your way so you can feel safe and raise your children in happiness and not fear. Whatever you feel is best, is always right.
Oh mooshie. I am so sorry honey. No woman EVER deserves to be treated like that. Goodluck honey I personally think you are right to leave him if he is going to treat you like this. This child deserves love and a gentle environment to grow up in and I know you will do your best. We support you honey and we are here to do whatever we can to help you sweety!
Awww Michelle You poor poor chook. I can't believe he's being like this now after everything that's happening, it's just not right I hope everything works out well for you guys & if not, we're all here for you if you need a (cyber) shoulder to cry on.
Thinking of you Michelle. It's an awful situation for you to be in. I hope that with all the help and support around you that you can get through this horrible time and out the other side into a nicer place with your precious children.
Take care :hugs:
Julie x
Oh Michelle... :hugs:
I am so glad to hear you have made some contact with support agencies. This type of behaviour isn't okay and you should not be subjected to it. I hope you can find some clarity through all of this and make the decisions that are right for you and your son. Know you have lots of support in here. Please keep us posted with how you are. You will be in my thoughts...
Oh my goodness
What fantastic news! I am so over-the-moon for you Michelle. It seems like so long ago that we were TTC together - I am thrilled for you that you have finally had your previous BFP. All the best for a wonderful pregnancy
ETA: I'm not sure how I missed your second post Michelle. That's terrible to hear that your DH isn't really accepting of this this little miracle of yours. I'm worried about you, I hope that things don't escalate between you and your DH and you can get the help you need from the services you have contacted. Stay safe love ... and stay safe for your little one.
Last edited by Cherie; May 16th, 2007 at 08:44 AM.
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I'm so so happy for you guys. All the best for a H&H pregnancy - i'll be keeping an eye out for your preg journal
I hope everything works out well for you guys & if not, we're all here for you if you need a (cyber) shoulder to cry on.
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