Thanks Blackbird, congratulations by the way. A little boy hey, wow.

I know that they cant say it all goes down hill from my age but they rub it in so much i suppose that it does freak me out. I dont think i could cope having something wrong with my bub. I know that if there was and we aborted that i wouldnt be trying again. Sounds harsh to some about aborting i know but its something we have talked about at lenghth and neither of us could handle a child with Downs or worse. Dont get me wrong, Downs kids are adorable and the adults are fine to but i couldnt handle it.

Hope i dont regret being so open with you girls but thats my thoughts. Sorry if ive peed some off with our decision but its us that has to live with it.