ok, im on my computer now and Spock is asleep. and I'm a midwife

ok, so 'normal' is hard, kind of like the end of your nose. when you cervix changes - that is it changes prior to dilation, it becomes soft like your lips. can't tell you if it is lower than 'normal' without checking myself. but it sounds good.

there are pg women on that website.

also, just want to throw it out there to make sure you wash your hands before checking etc...=)