I think it's a horrible, cruel joke nature plays that makes us feel the worst when no one can actually SEE that we're pregnant....so we don't get much sympathy

I know my DH was the same, especially with our first one. They can't see you're pregnant and they just don't get how something the size of your thumbnail could possibly be making you feel so crappy (neither does anyone else....bosses, parents, friends...the list goes on unfortunately lol). And yeah he might as well get used to mess because it comes with the territory with kids

Hang in there hopefully in the next few weeks this awful fog will lift and you'll feel heaps better - it's such a blessing when it finally happens!