Well, if they weren't commenting on them being close, I guess they'd be asking when you're going to try for another , it's really no one's business and I get how irritating it would be (not having been in the same position myself). Not entirely sure it is rude, thought probably bordering on it, certainly very nosy! Ha, ha, just read glamour's post and we said same thing! Note to self, read other's posts first!