thread: Feeling nervous about sharing our news.

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    4,427

    Mrs Mac- I agree with you! I think it is so rude of ppl to ask was it planned or not! Is it any of their business? Nice way of handling it though!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Feb 2008
    38

    i know how u feel although you are older, im younger and have the same troubles,
    i fell pregnant unexpectantly at 17 , had my 1st daughter at 18 , i then tried for another when she was 9 months old, and had my son,
    after he was born i fell preg on the pill, when he was only 4 months old,
    we often get comments like,

    omg you guys breed like rabbits, or dont u have a tv, u need to get a hobby ect ..

    my 2nd daughter was born next , and only 3 months after she was born , she is 5.5 months now , i knew something wasnt right, it had happened again !

    i know its not what many people chose and i certainly didnt , but my suprises are blessings, and iam in a perfect relationship of 5.5 years, engaged and own a house,
    yet im looked at so badly by most people,

    im 11, weeks 5 days today , and we are worried to even tell our parents who may think its too much this time, which makes it worse as i didnt want bubby ,

    but i know exactly how you feel we are leaving it as long as possible to tell anyone to avoid all those comments which are stupid but do get you down, for as long as possible.

    good luck with it all, just wanted to let you know there are others out there, young and older, it doesnt matter in the same situation as you

    CONGRATULATIONS and all the best with you pregnancy .


    sarah 21 - jason 27
    dd-05
    ds-07
    dd2-08

    #4 due 4th april 09 !!