It's still hitting me that I am pregnant... slowly. Sometimes I wake up at night and I think, I dont know if I am ready for this and I get really scared. I dont know how my life is going to change or anything. When I feel him/her moving it reassures me that bubs is ok, but sometimes it is just so much more real than others. Don't feel as though you're strange or anything. I have felt quite distant from my bub for a couple of days, but I am sure that will pass!
In regards to when do you see your bump, I agree with the other statements of it is different with everyone. I seem to have bumped out the last few weeks. But I have a friend who is 37 weeks and she looks as though she is 20 weeks.
Keep positive, it'll all happen soon enough and you'll look back at this time and go, I wish it was that easy now!!