I didnt' find out with no 1 and did with no 2. The excitement was the same both times. After all, when you find out no matter when it is, its' still a suprise . both experiences were great, but the down side of finding out No2 was a girl is htat they say they can't be 100% sure so there was always doubt in my mind. It then became quite stressful bonding with her and then wondering what if it's not a girl. I think next time I wouldn't find out.
It was good for the clothes, but really, as with NO1 I just had neutral clothes and then bought stuff as I went along. xoox