I went back for the follow up ultrasound and there was still no heart beat and the fetal pole or anything for that matter had not grown at all. I elelcted to have a D&C and hoped to have the products of conception sent for genetic testing however there was a problem with that and I had a uterine peforation during the procedure but am doing very well now. The Dr was very nice as a lot of Dr's don't even tell you if someting like that goes wrong. I have been on antibiotics for a week or so. I am recovering and getting ready to try again. After a month or so wait. Perhaps I will post with the TTC group when I try next time. I really would like a chance to have a baby where I didn't have to go back to work straght away. Thanks so much for all your support. Will keep you posted on my jourmey.