No dr wanted to see o r talk to me till after 14wks till I got put with a new dr who is lovely and listens to my needs and took all the proper tests and blood pressures etc as for the hospital though i rung to ask if they do tours and they said they only really "concern" themselves with ppl about 20wks onwards for that sort of thing

Is it just me or do they seem to want to fob you off till you pass the first trimester and if you don't m/c then they will give u the time of day?