I have a wee dilemma about whether or not to find out what sex our baby is, up until recently i have been sure that we would find out but now i am not too sure, what are your opinions on the matter? are many of you finding out what you are having and if so for what reasons? I thought it would be nice to plan things a bit better and may connect me more to my growing baby but then i wonder whether i should wait for the surprise? Any thoughts you may have would be great, thanks ladies