ok well im just pg due sept and havent told the in laws yet, as they will dissaprove and i wont here the end of it ouf 5th child, and well my sil is gettin married in april 3 aand has asked me 2 b a bridesmaid, she wants my dress size ... i know i wont b that in apr as i get very big whne im utd, wat do i do this is wat ive thougght
1. tell her that im pg and that i dont want her to waste any money for me to outgrow the dress
2. not say anything and get a larger size.
im stressin as we rhavent told the kids or steves parents and his dad is stayin up at his sisters while he is havin chemo, so this will b way 2 big of a secret 2 keep
Oh tricky! Congratulations! I've been a bridesmaid while pregnant, and just got a larger size, and then had it taken in a week or so before the wedding.
If you want to keep your pregnancy a secret, it could be pretty tricky...
They are all going to find out soon enough - so maybe best to get it over and done with now and tell them - they might be more upset if u hid it from them for awhile!
It's up to you, but I would tell her that I was pregnant and therefore will need the larger size. That way she doesn't spend money on something that won't fit when her wedding comes around. I would be annoyed if you told me to spend a few hundred dollars on a dress that you knew wouldn't fit!
PS I found your post really hard to read with the text language.
I think you need to tell her, so she can buy a correct dress.
So what if they don't approve. It's your life - not theirs. My in-laws can not approve of anything I do, I could care less. Most of mine need to be in a padded room and learn how to speak to people without being insulting everytime. They don't have the social skills, I don't have the care factor.
lestypuss- i wish i could just think that way im so close to them it makes it hard , it would be easier if i wasnt.and was more distant actually would be better if we didnt live so close.
oscaroscar-thanks for your advice sorry you found it hard to understand
thankyou all i took all of your advice, i really appreciated it all very wise .
i tolde her im pregnant and she said if i dont wanna be in the wedding thas it was ok and she would leave it up to me, i said i do but i just want u to know so you dont waste any money on a dress that may cost alot and then dont fit.
shes not bothered , she said i will still be the smallest out of everyone anyway wow wat a complanent although trust me im not skinny
I'm glad it worked out! It is lovely that it is up to you... will you still do it? I think the wedding photos will look stunning with a little bump in it .
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hellllp wat do i do?
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