I caved and tested early using one that is meant to be able to detect very low levels of the pg hormone and got a big fat negative. It's a bit hard because since I have been tracking my cycle the days have been 35, 35, 35, 42 (with the early mc) then 32 and now I'm back to day 35.
I am sure AF is on her way now. I just have a feeling.

Not to worry, fingers crossed I can join you all here in the not to near future.

Thanks heaps for all of your replies, it really helps having others to talk to who are in or have been in the same situation. I really appreciate it