I cant add anything that hasnt already been said, just want you to know youre not alone, a friend of mine has been ttc#2 for 2 years now, shes had 2 mc and one if them was ectopic and she ended up having her left tube removed. We officially start ttc this month and all 3 of my pg i have fallen first month, now im dreading that im going to have to tell her if we fall pg again quickly and she still hasnt. She is the most amazing person and i know she will be over the moon for us but i know, even though she'd never tell me, itll upset her. Weve put off ttc for personal reasons the last few months and ive been praying it happens for them before us, is that totally selfish? her and her dh are amazing and they deserve all the good things in life and its heart breaking that it isnt happening for them