Clare, great news that there is nothing physically stopping you and DH trying again when you're ready. And you'll know when that time comes. Until then, look after each other and try to help each other through this difficult process.

It is very difficult when nobody else wants to talk about your lost angels. For some reason it seems to be a taboo subject and once the "physical" side of it is done, people expect us to just move on and pretend it never happened. Don't pretend! If you need to talk we will always be here for you. Michelle is gorgeous and I'm sure giving you heaps of support. I know how desperately alone you must feeling and wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. I'm in Perth too so if you need to add an extra ear to your support line, I'm here.