in 1991 my son was born with a metabolic disorder and while it has been a struggle i would never get rid of a child just because it is not perfect... i was pressured to have all kinds of tests when i again fell pregnant that i managed to refuse! how could i tell my son that i got rid of his sister or brother because they were like him? my doctor gets very frustrated with me as i only do the tests with no risks attached ](*,)