Found out i am pregnant a few days ago. It wasn't planned, but wasn't a complete shock. It's not a bad thing, but the timing could have been better.

I don't really know what i am doing, what i am feeling and what i should be feeling.

It took me a day to tell hubby, who was shocked but excited.

Don't know if i want to tell people, and maybe this will help me to make it real. Or whether i should work it out myself first.

I saw a GP and she did blood tests, she said that it will settle in soon (i didn't really talk much about how i was feeling other than it wasn't 'planned'.)

All the posts show the woman being so happy, and it might be the dude getting his head around it.

I know i will prob feel silly next week, and be totally happy but at the moment i don't know what to do.

I have friends with pregnancy books, but can't really ask to borrow without it looking suspicious.

I guess i like to plan stuff, and i didn't plan this. don't really feel different, but know that something different is going on and i should be doing stuff or feeling stuff, and i'm just kind of numb.

is there anyone else that wasn't excited at the start?

is so thought that i would be excited. in the past, even when i didn't think i was pregnant but checked with pee on a stick, i was disappointed when there was only one line.