first things first, congratulations hun!
i think its normal especially if things weren't planned to feel a little less than excited.
Is this your first??
dont tell people just yet if ur not ready too, maybe wait till the 12 week mark and see how you feel then.
As for it 'feeling real' im nearly 30 weeks pregnant and it still dosnt feel real, or maybe im just in denial!! i thought telling people would make it feel real...nope, feeling baby move...nope, setting up a nursery...nope! lol maybe labour will make it feel real, but the way im going, probably not.
Good luck with everything
xxx