Hi there WBM,

I had a similar sort of experience to you. Not with the bone growth worry, but a different kind of scare. But same thing - 12 week scan was where it was discovered and we had to endure 4wks of waiting until a 16wk scan to confirm if something was wrong.

We too were asked to "consider our options" and we were terrified out of our minds.

DH and I spent lots of time talking together, talking with family (sort of) and a lot of time in prayer.

You need to do what works best for you in this situation - we found that a lot of our friends and even some family could not comprehend the decisions we were facing. Invasive tests that run the risk of miscarriage and a life changing decision. What do you do? We found a lot of people just didn't understand.

I know my situation is a little bit different but the waiting is still the same. I found work the hardest - I wasn't too busy and I had a lot of time when I could sit and think. Thinking was bad!

Sending you lots of - and keeping you in my thoughts.