WBM, I'm so so so sorry that you have to wait like this. And I prey with everything I have that your baby is just fine.
I know that your DOC has said that there is definitely something wrong and I don't want to get your hopes up with what I'm going to share with you but I just thought you might like to hear this. When I went for me morthology scan at 19ish weeks when I was pregnant with DS, every part of him measured only 16 weeks except his head that was a few days over my EDD. We immediately thought the worse and the sonographer and my doc said that there was a good chance that something could be wrong. I had 4 scans all before 12 weeks that all confirmed my EDD. So there was no way the dates were wrong. So of course were so worried, told to go back in 2 weeks. Well that was the longest 2 weeks of my life. Anyway we went back, and thank the lord he was back on track for my original EDD, body and head now measured the correct for dates, head still a little in front but that only because he has a boof head, still does . The sonographer said that he must have just stared a growth spurth and that's why his head was on track but his body 3 weeks behind.
I know this is totally different to your case, but I just wanted to let you know that sometimes, modern intervention can lead to much unnecessary worry. I know there is a very high chance that your baby does have something wrong with his/her legs, but there is also a small chance that he/she doesn't.
I hope you can stay possitive and strong over the next few weeks. And good luck with the next scan. I'll be thinking of you.
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