Sex and Spotting???

[Maruschke]

I have a retroverted uterus and hence hubby bumps my cervix nearly every time we have sex, but it has never caused bledding before. Maybe it is just a pg thing?

[myson]

DH and I have decided to abstain untilt he second trimester.

THis is because...

i have a history of miscarriage

i have a history of threatened miscarriage

i have bled VERY heavily after sex during my two successful pg's (once in each, then we chose to abstain)

i have bled heavily after just 'fooling around' without penetration

i was recently feeling a little excited after a s3xy dream. woke up and had started bleeding.

Yes we are both feeling a bit frustrated and snappy, but the well being of our baby is the most important thing. I am blessed with an extremely patient and understanding DH.

BUT. everyone is different, this is just my story.

[flossy]

Thanks for the replys... I have decided he can go without!! I am too tired to even think about it at the moment anyway!! As i have a chance of miscarriage due to my auto immune disease i think we shouldnt take any unneseccary risks anyway... Chasing my 2YO is challenging enough!! Thanks again!!