i must be in the minority in thinking that having a risk factor is worth knowing. you can have a 1 in 3000 risk and still end up with a bub with DS, but at least you know it's only a small chance.
i can't see why people feel that you should only have the test if, when you get a less than 1 in 300 chance, you're prepared to have the amnio! seriously, if i came back with a 1 in 100 chance, i'd accept that there was a 1% chance that my child may have this problem - it's all about how much you're prepared to rely on "chance". i just find it really disappointing that everyone is saying "if you won't have the amnio don't bother with the scan". that's essentially saying that no one deserves to know their RISK factor if they're not prepared to have further testing! an amnio is invasive and risky. WHY should I, if i have a 1 in 100 chance of having a child with DS, that i would love no matter what, risk that childs life and have just as high, if not HIGHER chance, of miscarrying, just to tell me whether or not that child has dodgy chromosomes
it's all about knowing the risk. if you're someone that needs absolutes, then fine, ONLY have the scan if you're prepared to have the amnio. but really, we ALL have chances that something is going to be wrong - isn't it better to know you have a slightly higher chance of a DS child than to go through this blindly
this is just MY OPINION - but i really think those on the amnio bandwagon need to look at it from a different perspective. HIGH chance of DS doesn't necessarily mean you HAVE to have an amnio - it means you have to be prepared that you might have a child with a disablility! big difference




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) to look at bean before we announced it to our families.
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