I have so far only had one & was living in Bali at the time & came home at 21 weeks to have her in Aust!!!
I had not seen a Dr or anyone, just knew I was pregnant, my breasts were ooozing through my bra's as the bra's in Bali would not have covered my nipple!!!! My breast were a firm C, cup bu by the time I came home I had to get an E & when I had 6 weeks of my preg to go I had to get a G Cup!!! They made the washing line spin fora week!!!!
Anyways I got off the plane in Melb in a pair of hipster jeans & a kids size 6 T-shirt!!! My tummy was hard/firm, but definately not showing!! Noone asked or said anything! I was desperate to get into those Maternity clothes! Within about 4 weeks of being home I could not fit into my oloder sisters maternity clothes, I was humongous!
Luckily I got a job at my old work during those 4 weeks so they could not now sack me!!!! But i was useless could not reach anything my belly was massive!
My breast started leaking all the time at 7 months & people always stared at me out shopping, others even noticed! It was very odd, I was big, but obviously pregnant!
I know my cousin got to 8 months without anyone really knowing & then balloooned! I guess there are just so amny various things that happen to each individual!!!
I'd go with flowing tops too!!!