My two are 19 months apart (would have been 20 but Tom arrived early!). Similar to Sammi, I got the BFP the day before Jack's first birthday. We were TTC too, but didn't expect it so soon.

I too think there are advantages to having them so close - you are already doing nappies etc, and they get along so well (well mine do anyway). And yes, Jack still has naps and Tom has two naps a day, most days they sleep at the same time for about 2 hours so I get things done or some rest.

I won't kid you, I did find the first few weeks tough, mostly as Tom was very unsettled and also his unexpectedly early arrival threw all our plans out the window and DH ended up having to take the week off while I was in hossy and then go back my first day home. But after the first 5 or 6 weeks, it was busy, but not too bad. In some ways it's probably harder now, as they are both on the go and really active. But still, they will happily play together for quite a while at a time, and most days sleep at the same time, so it is definitey easier than I was expecting.

I think you will be fine, give yourself time to get over the shock and I bet as soon as you see bub on the u/s you'll be ecstatic!