I will wait till 12 weeks. I want one done then, but after the fight I had to put up to get one with ds#2 at 12 weeks, I know I will probably need to fight again. I just wantt o make sure it has 2 legs, 2 arms & a head! Call me crazy but I don't want to get to 18 weeks & find there is something horribly wrong. I mean I would hate to see something wrong at 12 weeks too, but I do think if I had to make a decission on the out come of the preg I would rather do it at 12 weeks.
With #2 The midwife said they wouldn't send me but just go back to my GP & ask for a referal. She thought it was a fair enough concern & just to put my mind at ease. But no GP sore it that way.