my OB told me that you definitely have to be careful with the soft cheeses and other listerioses-related things.
She said that I shouldn't worry too much about the salami and ham and cold cuts stuff as long as I purchase it from a supermarket in packs. The not so safe stuff is the deli meats that have been lying around for God knows how long. Also she said to not worry that much about salmonella because it doesn't cross the placenta (while listeriosis does). So it will make you sick as a dog but not the baby. She also added that chances are higher that you get hit by a car than get salmonella ... which I guess is statistically right, but doesn't really help us pregnant women with worrying, huh?

I have honestly gone from totally obsessing about what I could or could not eat to being a bit more relaxed about it in the last week.