I wanted to wait until 14 weeks, but we told at nearly nine weeks because I had to cancel my cousins Hen Party and we'd had the scan so had seen the heartbeat - that was the main thing I wanted to wait for. Plus if I left it until 14 weeks that would have been my cousin's wedding day... not great timing! People had to find out before they saw I wasn't drinking and guessed and we usurped the wedding, even if only a little!

I can't handle the fussing, which is why I'm happy my parents live hundreds of miles from me! LOL, I love them but only visits in small doses.