Hi ladies,

this is the first message about my pg. Last time I was so excited that I was on the site every day, but then we lost our baby between 7 & 8 weeks and I was a wreck.
I didn't have any sypmthoms that something was going wrong, so the shock was huge.

Anyway... I fell pg during the Xmas-NY period (I'm 9 weeks now) and I am quite scared... I have been eating the wrong food (brie, ham, feta...) during the holiday season (and before finding out I was pg) and up to yesterday I thought some of them were allowed (with my DD pg I had ham and other deli products and she is a healthy toddler now).

I feel a bit confused because doesn't matter how much you research you find different opinions... I know the obvious ones to leave out of my diet, but since my first pg (DD) the list of food to avoid got longer and longer.

I read that it could take up to 6 weeks before you realise that you contracted one of the scary infection that lead to MC.

I had an US 2 weeks ago and the baby's hb was fine (with the last pg it was way too low, which they told us was a sign that the baby was dying) but now I feel nervous again... should I go for another US just to feel better?

I have the first OB visit in a week... should I wait for it?

sorry for being so "silly", but the MC was a huge shock for me and I am scared that it could happen again...
xxx