We waited until 12 weeks to tell almost everyone for my first pg, and then for the 2nd one, it ended at 8 weeks, so parents and PIL knew then. While we were on IVF, people pretty much knoew from the word go - even before the actaul "event" so to speak (ie the injections etc..).

For the last pg, we just told my mum and PIL at 6 weeks after a good scan, but then at 10 weeks when it failed, SIL/BIL also knoew (via the grapevine).

This time, we are keeping it quite until either a bad scan (and hence surgery) or we intend to tell people on Christmas Day, by which I will be almost 12 weeks and will have been monitored every step of the way. If I make it to Xmas, then I gunna make it to term!!

Hayseed