Hmm, this an isssue for me at the moment.
With my other pregnancies we told everyone family and close friends straight away and I don't regret that. Even though things didn't wok out last time it was good to have the support.
This time however DH really wants to keep things quiet 'til about 10-12 weeks. I would like to tell people though, just so that this baby is recognised even if things don't go well. Does that make sense?
Everyone assumes that because of the m/c that we won't be telling this time but I don't see why we shouldn't. The only people I don't want to tell yet are the kids as I don't want to see them dissapointed again if things go wrong. I'd like to tell them at Xmas. What do you think? 8-[