We have always said we wouldn't tell anyone till 12 wks. I'm 10.5 weeks now and I have only told my best friend as she has just had a baby so I needed to relate to her experiences. I agree with a lot of you, I would like my parents to know in case something went wrong but I recently had a friend m/c who had told everyone and she then had to deal with all their emotions too so that made me want to keep it quiet. Also when I tell I want to be able to tell everyone and for them to tbe able to tell people too. My Mum is going to kill me though! She keeps saying "so no more goss?" I just think you are going to die when I tell you my goss, as no one even knew we were trying. So it will be a real surprise.

Now I cant decide whether to tell on Fathers Day when I'm 12 weeks or wait till after my scan a couple of days later..