Because I was still with my XH until I was past three months, DP and I didn't tell our parents until a few weeks before xmas, when I figured they'd notice. DP's parents knew I was pregnant, as I was going to their place almost every week for tea, but they didn't know it was DP's.

So I was almost five months when I told my family. We'd already had the 20 week ultrasound and everything. Mum was kinda suprised because under the xmas tree there was a present (a little teddy) with the tag for Brandon Codi, and mum didn't realised we'd named him already, even though I told her when I told her I was pregnant. (I think she was in shock). She thought my sister had put a present for someone else with the presents for mum to take home.