When is a good time to have my baby shower?? i'm kind of in an awkward position because my birthday is mid april and i am due mid july, i dont want it after my birthday as i worry people will buy presents for the baby and not for me(it happened at christmas and i was veyr upset by it) because its the last birthday i will ever get by myself, so i want it to be about me(is that selfish??). So i want my baby shower to be BEFORE my birthday so people will buy baby stuff for baby shower and other stuff for me on my birthday, btu i dont want it to close because then i'm worried people will stinge out on good presents for me because they spent all the money on baby(again..is that selfish? i want good prezzies its the last proper ones i'll get...) so when is a good time?


obviously next baby i have will be in about 5 years or more and will be planned to be far away from xmas and my birthday to avoid this problem!