mbear, some women do show before 11 - 12 weeks, I've known plenty! Usually they are not fat at all quite the opposite. I think also you've got to remember that whilst the uterus is not above the pelvis, its still double its size and everything else gets moved around to make way for it.

I am starting to show slightly now. But nothing you would outwardly notice if you weren't me or DH if that makes sense LOL!

Everyones different, and you do start to shower quicker with subsequent pregnancies.

*hugs*
Cailin