jessy - lol you did confuse me, but reading it twice, i think i got it :-) my dr actually wants me to wait til 18 weeks for my first u/s.. he has given me a referral though, so i guess i could go sooner..
i'm not sure what the difference is between antenatal and u/s

nella - when i asked my dr for a referral, i had to push him to give it to me.. he said it was unnecessary at 13 weeks and not to rush things.. lol being pg, hormonal and alone, he's lucky i didn't hurt him