Hi all, Im 41 weeks pregnant tomorrow, and still battling on with no signs of labour.. not even cramping or anything. Im getting very impatient and have tried a few of the wives tales to get labour started, like curry and sex, but still nothing.
Someone suggested parafin/castor oil, but then I heard it can cause severe stomach aches and diahorrea, which I dont wanna risk having if for any reason I do go into labour aswell.. :-S
Doctor checked me on tuesday and said my cervix is soft, but not dilating yet.

My husband and I are also booked to fly up to queensland in two weeks to see family, and im still without bub and am stressing now that if there are issues or dramas with bubs delivery, we will have to forfit airfares, accomodation and car rental which has already been paid for in full...
Help! any advice would be great as I dont want to have to get induced on monday and would much prefer my labour to come on naturally, Ive heard induction can be very full on, painful and scary.