Excuse my ignorance if this is a stupid question I'm blond as well as pregnant

So is that in relation to M/S?
He he! Nope, just the odds of having a boy or a girl. I'm a research girl (in both my work and personal life) and have read so much about gender stats, pregnancy symptoms (to determine if you're carrying a boy or a girl), etc and there are plenty of websites that will tell us preggy women 'what we want to hear' (ie if we're hoping for a particular sex, we tend to only believe and remember the sites that tell us what we want to hear!) but the reality is, the gender of our babies really is random. I even read an article just this weekend which said that the sex of your siblings and your partners siblings provide no indication of the sex of your children, even if you come from a family of five girls!