Thank you all for your replies. My apt with the doc the other night went well, my fiancee met me there which was extra helpful, and I just went in with the thought of that it is probably nothing, but in case it is something that I will just have to find out how to deal with it and get on with it.
Turns out the doc thinks it is just some sort of cyst, should go away on its own soon. But if it doesn't, then do come back. So, in the mean time of waiting to see if it goes away, I am not worrying about it.
I'm not sure if we (as neg blood group) have to have the blood test cos our men are pos. blood groups (my man has no idea which group he is), I think its just cos we are negative. Oh well, just have to go through that apt as well. Not looking forward to it, but must go through it. Hey, not overly looking forward to the birth, but gotta go through that too! Thank you for the hug Netty. Its nice to know there are others out there concerned about someone else (that goes for all of you! )
Well, I am going to have a bit of a relax now, my friend and I went on a long walk (about 12-15km's!) this morning, and my head is telling me I need some water. Such warm weather!