DS will be 22 months when #2 arrives - almost half way and struggling in the heat and a very active 17 month old.. Agree with Feeb on the napping and picking up! I have a few concerns, mostly transitions I want DS to make before April and I know already that some of them aren't going to happen ie: toilet trained as not really wanting to wash nappies all day long nor do i want to fork out money for more nappies.. suppose that's what the baby bonus if for right?