I had DH home for the first 2 weeks and our parents cautiously popped in during that time but mainly left us to ourselves which was great...then DH went back to work and i had a few meltdowns over the phone to mum and she came over - mainly to give me a chance to sleep when Izzy wouldnt! Now my MIL pops in two nights a week with dinner (I know how can you say no!!) and my mum visits/helps once a week. Because I had a caesar too mum would do the vacuuming etc too. Ive learnt to say no or we dont do that in a kind but firm way too!!!! Blabbing now - good luck!!!!