I wasn't having one as DD was only 21 months when DS was born..

But some friends really wanted to do something, so we did have a lunch, and as far as presents, I agreed to them getting me a close carrier (a suggestion was made, and I liked it, I didn't ask), as we had everything else, and I knew I would use a carrier this time around, but I would also have just been happy to have them all here for a catch up..