Sezjm - In my family it is traditional for someone to host a baby shower for you at their place. But as soon as I found out I was pregnant at 5wks I had my sister and one of my aunts arguing over who would host the baby shower and where. I said I don't care who organises it, but I want it at my place (so I could have gone off and had a nap if it got too much hehe), but do you think you can wait til I tell everyone that I am pregnant before you organise the baby shower? (then they moved on to the christening!)

My sister also had a unisex baby shower years ago, which upset the aunts as well hehe.

The rules are there to be broken, or bent, or whatever you want to suit yourself.