What about giving everyone safety pins and then they can't say the word baby or then they get a pin taken off them - whoever has the most pins wins a prize?

I love the idea of thank yous and I am definately doing this as I know a few 'family friends' think that babyshowers are just a way to get presents. I am thinking of a little photo frame that they can put a pic of the baby in when its born.

I am organising my own with Mum and MIL. I am a control freak and love organising things so can't wait. Have already started even though its not till May