normally only have them for first babies and ultimately they are to give gifts so if that wasnt to happen then it wouldnt really be a baby shower!
i have heard of surprise ones but if she really doesnt want one then this might rub her the wrong way.
ive heard of a new 'baby welcome shower' a get together thats held AFTER the bub is born so the bub is there. this might be better as ultimately its not a shower and if ppl have already brought a pressie at the time of birth they might not be as inclined to bring a pressie... as it is technically just to see the bub and have a get together. asking ppl to bring a plate of food and / or their drinks might make them think also that there is no need for a present in this instance?
Yeah, plate of food is a good idea. There's always party games. The last one I hosted was hilarious - and involved me licking melted chocolate out of a nappy - to the uninformed eye, the photo is absolutely revolting! It was a really good catch-up for a lot of people, so I love them.
I don't know how I could work it anyway, as SIL is in Melbourne, and due early Jan. I'm due to visit in October (could work) or one week before she's due!! Proabably a bit late!
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