I am married but didn't change my surname (too much paperwork!!) but I am going to try and sneak my surname in as a middle name - so bubs will have DH's surname but then an extra middle name

have to admit DH isn't very happy about this, he wants only his surname involved, but that's because he's a caveman and feels the innate need to re-populate the earth in his own image or something.....

I do have concerns about when Bubs goes to school and we have different surnames but I really just can't bring myself that change my surname, that's my name, it's been my name for the last 30 years. Who knows maybe I'll feel differently after he's born.

Do what you feel comfortable with

Em