I agree with Flea

With pg #1 from the moment we decided to begin ttc I became quite strict with all my eating steering clear of everything non-fresh and not at a million degrees!! (I hated eating at my MIL because as far as DH can remember, she has never been great with food prep timing so you usually eat cold, over cooked food....blerr!! AND they don't believe in microwaves!!!) So each month I didn't get pg I kept thinking I could've had that seafood ****tail....LOL!!!

With this pg, I do what Flea suggested, stick to the text book stuff to avoid coz she is so right!! All these eating rules really can do your head in!!! But apart from the text book rules, I have been stacks more relaxed in my eating and have certainly enjoyed myself more, not over eating or eating stacks of bad stuff or anything like that, but I haven't felt paranoid everytime I go to put something in my mouth!!!!!!!!!

I think as long as your smart, which you definitely sound!!!! You will have no worries and still be able to enjoy yourself and remain relaxed.