Bleeding & Scared @ 5wks

[krysalyss]

WannaBMum,
Good luck with the tests today. Will be thinking of you.
I had bleeding at 8 wks and my dr and the hospital thought my bub had gone but he was still there fighting on and now he is 14 months old. I am sure there are lots of women here with similar stories. So heres for sending you lots of sticky vibes.
Hugs

[WannaBMum]

Hi to everyone,

once again I'd like to thank you all for you lovely words and kind support.......

But its not good news, my beautiful baby is gone.
It was confirmed yesterday afternoon that I have miscarried.

I never thought in my life that I'd have to go through this horrible time, but it's here and I just feel so empty, I broke down last night and my wonderful neighbours came a took my 18 month old for a while so that my husband and i could just spend some time together.
I appreciate my husband so much and especially at this time I realise that nothing else in the world matters as long as i have the ones i love close.

So i have to speak to my dr tomorrow morning and she's going to decide if she wants me to have any procedures done, and then i guess my DH and i have to make the decision if and when we're going to start trying again for another...

Thank you very much to everyone....

jenny

[Shellbelle]

I am so sorry for your loss

[~Kim~]

Jenny, I'm so sorry hun.

[STARRYSKY]

Jenny, so sorry for the loss of your angel.
You are not alone, feel free to grieve and vent here as long as you need to.
take care of yourself, dh and your precious little boy.
xxx

[bettyboop]

so sorry to hear of your loss, we are all here for you, sending you a big hug

[Liviam]

Jen I am so very very sorry about the loss of your beautiful little angel

[New Dawn]

So sorry

[WannaBMum]

Thank you for all of the hugs and kind words.

I couldn't get in contact with my Dr today as she was off,
so now my question is what happens next, I'm not sure if i should now be posting this question in the Miscarried section or not,

but I have my mum and MIL telling me all different things, my MIL is telling me to ask Dr's for an ultrasound to be 100% certain that the baby is definately gone due to a bad experience she had years ago when Dr's told her she was lossing her baby and there;s nothing tha could be done, she demanded an ultrasound and her baby was still there and she had her daughter fine. MIL also told me that she bleed almost the whole way through her 5 pregnancies but all was good in the end...

One the other hand i have my mum telling me to ask the Dr for a D&C (i think thats what u guys call them on here), to make sure that my body is cleaned out of all the bad germs and stuff..

So I'd love some opinons, and if i'm posting in the wrong area just let me know and i'll move it...

thanks heaps to all

[mako]

Hi Jen
I'm so sorry that you lost your precious little angel.

Please take all the time you need to heal and greive.Be prepared to have some good days and some not so good days hun. This is completely normal.

As far as what happens next will depend on your b/t results. It will also depend on what your dr suggests too. If I were you I'd make an appointment to see your dr and go from there