It's so stupid how much pressure revolves around.weight. I am the opposite; im underweight n ppl look at me like I don't eat and they.aren't afraid to ask. Along with that comes the assumption that I cannot birth my baby cuz I'm small or that im weak n easily intimidated. I think they expect my baby to be sickly n undernourished. I'm happy to say I disproved all of those things....n I gained nearly 20kgs with ds n I was still on the low side of ' normal' weight according to bmi. I think if u can stay confident in yourself then they will see u are in charge n capable of being great