Hi Maggie

Mine weren't tender after about 9 wks, but still grew... and grew... :shock: I had to get maternity bras at about 12 wks and upsize them at 26ish. Obviously will be going for even larger when I'm bf. Aereolas continue to grow, but how much varies a lot I've noticed. Just because the tenderness eases doesn't mean they're any fun for your DP/H too, mine started leaking at about 20 wks!