I couldn't book bubba in till after they are born- it's like you are giving them up before you meet them. (I don't want to make people guilty- I know this ins't always a choice).
Yeah I guess that's one way to look at it! We won't be needing childcare (if at all) until after 12 months at home.

I'm hoping we won't need it ... aahhh we'll just have to see!